Saturday, 27 June 2015

Why This Women's Soccer Player Got Naked for ESPN The Magazine's Body Issue

"I'm proud of my body, I'm proud of my sport."

U.S. women’s national soccer team defender Ali Krieger is fit, strong, and one heck of an athlete:

But while her tenacity on the field is undeniable, she showed an entirely different type of courage when she decided to pose nude for the forthcoming ESPN The Magazine's Body Issue 2015 (on newsstands July 10):

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“I'm proud of my body, I'm proud of my sport, I'm proud of being a female athlete,” she tells ESPN. “Being naked is just another aspect of that. It's real. It's raw. It's honest.”

Ali admits to harboring some insecurities (she's only human), calling her calves and thighs big. But she says that she embraces them: “I've trained since I was 6 years old to play soccer, and this is just the type of body I have,” she tells the publication. “I'm proud of my thighs because they've gotten me to where I am today and give me the power that I have to play my best.”

We love your body pride and honesty, Ali!

RELATED: Watch Amy Poehler and Seth Meyers Skewer a Sports Writer Who Criticized Female Athletes

Ali and the rest of Team USA take on China in the Women’s World Cup quarterfinals tonight at 7:30 p.m. ET on FOX.

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The Food Swaps I Made to Lose Over 90 Pounds and Feel Healthier Than Ever

Tara LaJevic tried to avoid the scale and mirrors for as long as she could, but one day she'd had enough.

Before: 240

After: 148

The Lifestyle
Most of my adult life, I've weighed somewhere around 170 pounds. For someone who is 5'9", that's not the ideal weight, but I felt okay about myself. For the most part, I was eating things like cheeseburgers, fries, pizza, and pasta in Alfredo sauce, and I didn't really think about what I was putting into my body. Plus, I worked in the restaurant industry, where I was around unhealthy yet tasty food all. The. Time. But I worked out a lot and loved taking cycling classes, so my weight stayed pretty consistent.

When I got pregnant in my early twenties, I gained about 70 pounds and weighed 220 pounds. I stopped going to the gym and continued eating what I wanted. After having my daughter, I decided to join a weight-loss program, and it worked! I went back to 175 pounds.

Unfortunately, while I was on the program, I always felt hungry. So when I quit, I went back to my old ways and started putting the weight back on. By the time my daughter was in school, my weight had skyrocketed. Between 2012 and 2013, I'd gained 45 pounds and was too embarrassed to work out anymore. To make some extra money, I picked up another job and was working more than 50 hours a week—and of course, that was on top of taking care of my daughter. I began eating at the restaurants I worked at more frequently, and my weight continued to creep up. Eventually, I stopped weighing myself, began avoiding mirrors, and pretended like nothing was wrong.

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The Change
One day at work, a news crew came to interview a few people about an incident that had happened in the area. After I was interviewed on camera, I was kind of excited to see myself on TV. But when the newscast aired, I couldn't believe how big I looked. I broke down. I actually went into a little bit of a depression. I felt really hopeless, but I tried to channel those emotions into researching how other people had lost weight. Those success stories inspired me to try to change my life.

My mom told me that she and my dad had used the Atkins diet to lose a lot of weight and that it might work for me—so I went for it. I started by cutting back on the amount of carbohydrates and sugar I was eating and by ramping up my protein intake. I'm not going to lie—it was really hard to avoid French fries at work and order lunches without any bread at first, but I knew that sticking to the diet would help me reach my goal. I actually learned how to stick with my eating habits when I ate out. I started ordering salmon with a side of veggies, scrambled eggs with chorizo, and salads.

After four weeks, I weighed myself and realized that I'd lost 20 pounds, bringing me to 220. When I reached 175 pounds about seven months later, I started going to the gym again. It felt so good to be active! I was surprised how easy it was to work out without the extra weight.

One year after deciding to change my life, I'd lost 92 pounds and weighed 148 pounds. For the first time in my adulthood, I wear a size six. I feel awesome!

RELATED: I'm Sticking to My Diet Perfectly—So How Come I'm Not Losing Weight?

The Reward
My favorite part about being this size is that I can go shopping and buy whatever I want. I think this is the first time I've worn shorts since I was 12. Now, I wear them every day.

RELATED: The Diets That Are Proven to Make You GAIN Weight

Tara's Tips
Hold off on weighing yourself at first. When I began changing my eating habits, I didn't want to get discouraged if the pounds didn't come off right away. By waiting a few weeks to weigh myself, I stayed motivated during the hardest part of any lifestyle change. Now, I step on the scale pretty frequently to make sure I'm on track.

Know that you can change yourself. When I weighed around 180, I thought, "Well, this is how I look, and I can't change it." But nothing is permanent. When I decided to change my life for the better, I did it.

You don't have to starve to lose weight. Though I was cutting back on certain kinds of foods, I never felt like I was hungry after a meal. I felt satisfied by eating lots of protein and veggies—which helped me stay on track with my good habits.

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Work Your Upper AND Lower Body in One Crazy Simple Move

Where has this exercise been all your life?

Join the Women's Health Weekend Challenge to help you meet your fitness goals fast and make your weekend workouts count. Thousands of women already have. Join them, and achieve your fitness goals faster!

Farmer's Walk: Your go-to workout move doesn't need to be complex to be effective. This uncomplicated move works your shoulders, arms, core, thighs, and calves—while you walk. Come on, people. It doesn't get much better than that. Now get walking!

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SO…ARE YOU IN?!

Wanna take your fitness to the next level? Starting July 1, you can sign up for Degree's Get Moving Challenge for a chance to win a one-on-one workout with celeb trainer and transformation pro Chris Powell!

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Friday, 26 June 2015

7 Killer Kale Recipes

Green leafy vegetables rule the nutrition world, but the benefits of kale make it king of the hill. Try these 7 delicious recipes to make this nutritional powerhouse a part of your meal plan!

Watch Amy Poehler and Seth Meyers Skewer a Sports Writer Who Criticized Female Athletes

So much awesomeness

In yet another episode of "Modern Men Acting Incredibly Misogynistic": When Sports Illustrated staffer Mark Mravic tweeted out this during the U.S. women’s soccer team’s awesome World Cup game against Colombia on Monday night...

...SI contributor Andy Benoit reportedly responded with, "Not women's soccer...women's sports in general not worth watching." (The tweet seems to have since been deleted.)

Classy, dude. (For the record, Benoit has since apologized.)

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There are a lot of things we could say in response to that ignorant concept. (Check out the 12 most adrenaline-packed moments in Women's World Cup history and just try to not get pumped up.)

But no one can deliver a boo-ya better than Seth Meyers and Amy Poehler via their former Saturday Night Live "Really!?!" segment. Thank goodness they brought back their brilliance last night on Late Night with Seth Meyers:

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Oh, heck yeah, women's sports are really worth watching.

The 6 Principles Of Getting Lean

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13 Women Share the Sweet Ways Their S.O.s Have Comforted Them on Sh*t Days

You’ll get rom-com status feels

One of the best things about being in a relationship is the fact that your partner is pretty much obligated to love you, even when your emotions are basically the equivalent of Carrie's cry face on Homeland.

The only thing that surpasses a guy's unconditional love is when he actually gets creative in a mission to cheer you up. Here, real women share the adorable things their guys have done to turn that frown upside down.

"My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. If we're FaceTiming and I'm cranky, he'll put on a song I like in the background and then, like, wiggle around. It's adorable, and he always puts the music on really sneakily, like reaches for the remote off-screen so I don't know he's doing it. Then, he looks really proud of himself when it comes on." —Alana R.

"I was having a tough week at work, and my boyfriend had flowers sent to me at the office. It wasn't just the beautiful flowers, but also the sweet and encouraging note that made his gesture so thoughtful. The note basically said, 'I know you’ve had a tough week, but just know that you doing an awesome job. You are truly a special person and the most amazing woman I have ever met. Meeting you over five years ago was the best thing to ever happen to me.' I replanted the succulent in the middle after the bouquet started to die, and I still have it!" —Elizabeth M.

Elizabeth M.

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"My boyfriend and I are long-distance, and whenever I'm having a crappy day, he always texts me really cute animal pictures. Anything funny or with koalas or other adorable animals always makes me smile." —Sarah K.

"My boyfriend and I started out long-distance—and after a while, as you would expect, I started to get really bummed out when he'd leave New York to fly back to San Francisco. One day, a handwritten letter showed up in the mail. On the front, there was a picture of chips and salsa, with 'you' and 'me' pointing to each. I don't even remember what it said, but the thought made my day. The best part is he kept sending them, and it became a defining part of our relationship—we'd bring letters when we'd see each other, tuck them in suitcases before departures, and throw 'em in for holidays, of course. When we moved in together, I put all of our letters together in one pile, and it was the coolest thing getting to see them all in one place and reading them, each one getting a little sappier! It tells our story in the coolest way, and now that we're together, going through them can cheer up any bad day." —Devin T.

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"One time, when I was having a crappy day, my boyfriend showed up to my job as a surprise and took me to lunch. It was particularly nice of him since I had been a b*tch that morning because I was stressed. We didn't do anything fancy—it was a burger place that is in the same building as my work, but that's what made it special. He knew work was what was stressing me out, so he made sure I wouldn't have to go far so I could be there in case anything happened." —Jules C.

"I'm a busy jewelry designer and entrepreneur. Sometimes, it's tough to do all the things I need to take care of and have time for fun things, like decorating for Halloween. My husband, Ragu, is amazing. He is a cardiologist with a very busy practice, but he always helps out. The week of Halloween last year was a particularly busy and challenging one for me, and I was beating myself up for not decorating the house due to lack of time. My husband stepped up and not only carved the pumpkins but did them in such a creative way! I felt better because though I did not have time to seek out the fun I wanted, he brought the fun to me. It helped me relax and let go." —Priyanka M.

Priyanka M.

"I was going through a really hard time at work and just feeling sad all around. My boyfriend came home one day, and after the delicious meal he made didn't cheer me up, he said the one thing he knew would excite me: 'Do you want to go get me a new pair of shoes?' I absolutely love shopping for him, but he's usually not so enthusiastic. The fact that he was willing to go out with me that second and spend a bunch of money on something he didn't care about just to cheer me up really made my day." —Veronica T.

"My birthday was last week, and I turned 25—a milestone birthday for me! It was the first time I wasn’t able to spend it with my family and mom because she just had surgery. My boyfriend, Daniel, knew I was feeling down about it, so he planned a surprise picnic on the beach in Malibu! I’m so lucky to have such a thoughtful guy in my life!" —Amanda P.

Amanda P.

"When I have a crappy day, all I want to do is get home from work and veg out. My boyfriend knows all the things I really like: not cooking dinner, sour candy for dessert, funny/cheesy movies, candles, non-reciprocated back rubs, and a clean room to come home to. My natural tendency when I get home is to start organizing my stuff/packing my gym bag for the next day, answering e-mails, and cleaning up around the apartment. But if he knows I’ve had a rough day, he’ll force me to just drop my stuff, eat the dinner he made, and there will be a movie up and ready to go on Netflix. The bed will be nicely made with a giant bag of Sour Patch Kids on top, all our candles will be lit so the room smells amazing, and he’ll give me a long massage. It’s the best stress reliever!" —Kristin C.

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"My car died while I was running errands. My boyfriend came over a couple hours later with his brother, who fixes cars, and my favorite summer beer. He went to the grocery store up the road after they left, and then he came back with a bag of peaches, my absolute favorite. He was very thoughtful and is always so considerate of my moods when I've had a rough day that's out of my control. Best guy ever." —Kelly L.

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"My partner and I were going through a really rough patch, and things were a bit stressful at work. I came home one day, and he'd bought me a coffee table book of puppy portraits. He let me know it was a gift for me that he hoped would make me smile when he wasn't able to. And since I'm a photographer, he also hoped it would maybe inspire my work. It was such a sweet and selfless thing to do. I really do look at the book when I'm sad, not just for the puppies, but as a reminder of how loving and kind he is." —Lynae C.

“First off, I am a Hello Kitty fanatic. A sweet gesture that my partner did for me was during the Easter holiday last Spring, he surprised me with a goody basket full of chic treats, including Hello Kitty Easter eggs filled with candy, shimmery lip gloss, flower-scented perfume, and my favorite body butter from Bliss. It was during midterm week and I was feeling stressed, so it was the perfect pick-me-up gift!” —Julia R.

Julia R.

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"When I'm feeling stressed or blue, I always reach out to my boyfriend because I know he'll make me smile. He has a habit of responding to my stressed-out texts with hilarious GIFs—and he even has a jokes site bookmarked so he can send me something funny in a pinch!" —Jillian K.

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9 Ways to Wear, Chew, and Cuddle with a Penis

Yup, you read that right.

If you're a straight woman, chances are you might think penises are pretty great. Unfortunately, one might not always be available when you need it. Not to worry: We scoured the Internet for the cutest, cuddliest, and most random man-part substitutes we could find for just about any occasion. Whether you're looking for a unique bachelorette party gift—or you simply want to show your appreciation for male anatomy—check out these nine awesome penis products. (Oh yeah, and none of them are sex toys.)

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1. Penis Wine Bottle Cozies
For those nights when it's just you, Netflix, and a bottle of vino.

$13 each (sets available), crochetcocks.com

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2. Vintage Flying Penis Charm
This adorable flying penis charm necklace is sure to be a conversation starter, but it’s still discreet enough to blend in with your regular jewelry.

$15, etsy.com

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3. Half Dozen Neon Penis Cookies
Finally, a penis you can really sink your teeth into! These neon cookies make awesome bachelorette party favors.

$19, naughtycookiebox.com

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4. Wooden Lamp
If this suggestively-shaped lamp doesn't set the mood, we don't know what will.

$14, etsy.com

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5. Leather Penis Puzzle
This is a perfect pastime for a ladies' night in. It also makes for a pretty cool boudoir decoration.

$88, etsy.com

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6. Petey the Penis Plush
Sometimes you just really want to cuddle with an adorable smirking penis, right?

$40, etsy.com

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7. There's Just Something Funny About Penis Throw Pillow
There's nothing like some penis scribbles to really tie a room together.

$20, redbubble.com

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8. Silver Penis Pendant
This phallic pendant has a little pull in the back that allows you to give it an erection. Charming!

$69, etsy.com

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9. Penis Crayon Set
Another fun bachelorette party idea, these penis-shaped crayons are perfect for a naughty game of Win, Lose, or Draw.

$6, etsy.com

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People Kept Calling This Woman’s Body Perfect—So She Posted an Untouched Photo

Let us review: No one is perfect.

Kimberly Henderson is a singer/songwriter from South Carolina and a mom of four. Here’s what she looks like:

Got my short hair in an updo

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RELATED: See How Much the "Perfect" Female Body Has Changed Over 100 Years

In a June 19 Facebook post, Kimberly posted another selfie. This time, though, she showed off her belly in the pic in order to prove a pretty refreshing point—check out her explanation in the caption below:

Everyone always compliments me on how I have such a "perfect" body after 4 kids. I decided to upload this pic and leave...

Posted by Kimberly Henderson on Thursday, June 18, 2015

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Kimberly’s message has since gone viral, inspiring more than 108,000 likes and over 4,100 comments. Her post reminds us of one from another awesomely confident mom, Rachel Hollis, whose bikini snap went viral in March.

If Kimberly’s post is any indication, it seems like the body honesty trend is here to stay, and we couldn’t be more thrilled!

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Thursday, 25 June 2015

Kimye Only Wanted a Son—So They Handpicked Male Embryos, Apparently

That’s just how they roll.

On Father’s Day, Kim Kardashian announced to the world that she and hubby Kanye West are giving North West, 2, a baby bro:

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Most couples share their baby’s gender on social media after they experience the exciting reveal themselves at the doctor’s office. That was apparently never the case for Kimye.

According to Us, the couple used in vitro fertilization (IVF) sex selection to ensure that baby number two would be a little dude—no revelations necessary.

“She only had boy embryos implanted,” a source close to Kim reportedly told Us, while another source close to Kanye reportedly told the publication, “Kanye loves Nori more than anything, but to make his world complete, he wanted a little boy, an heir.” (Definitely sounds like Kanye, right?) When asked by Today.com about the embryo rumors, Kim denied them. She said she's just grateful to be pregnant.

RELATED: New Study Says IVF Should Be First Choice for Infertile Women Over 40

This idea of choosing the sex of your baby via IVF when there’s no medical reason for it (such as avoiding a sex-linked genetic disorder) but so that you have both girls and boys in the fam is referred to as “sex selection for family balancing.” It’s pretty controversial.

First, the basics—a.k.a., how it goes down: Using a technique called preimplantation genetic screening (PGS), embryos generated via IVF are genetically tested, which reveals the sex. Then, only the embryos that are the sex that the parents are hoping for are transferred into the mom’s uterus.

In a statement from the Ethics Committee of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) on using reproductive technology for sex selection for nonmedical reasons, the group wrote: “Recognizing reasoned differences of opinion, the ASRM Ethics Committee has not reached consensus on whether it is ethical for providers to offer [assisted reproductive technology] for sex selection for nonmedical purposes. Arguments regarding patient autonomy and reproductive liberty have been offered in support of the practice. Risks and burdens of the procedure, gender bias, sex stereotyping and non-acceptance of offspring, efforts to guard against coercion, and issues of justice all raise concerns about the practice.”

RELATED: The Past, Present, and Future of Baby-Making and Morality Debates

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How Tattoos Are Helping Women Recover from Serious Health Issues

Body art can be healing.

Women get tattoos for a whole host of different reasons. Sometimes it’s to express themselves through body art; other times it’s to memorialize a family member that’s no longer alive. In some cases, though, ink actually serves a health purpose: Tattoos can be used to do everything from camouflage serious burns to mask the scars from breast cancer surgery—all of which can help women regain their confidence after a traumatic accident or health crisis.

Basma Hameed, whose face was badly burned by hot oil in a kitchen accident when she was just two years old, has become an expert in medical corrective tattooing. "After having three failed eyebrow-hair transplants, I decided to get permanent eyebrows tattooed," she told Mic.com in January. "I saw the result immediately. I was so happy that I thought to myself, 'Why not do the same procedure using skin tone pigments on my scar tissue to camouflage the discoloration?' At the time, no one had heard of anything like it, and no one wanted to take the risk."

RELATED: Are You Really Ready for a Tattoo?

Now, she’s using her skills as a medical tattoo artist to help women in situations similar to hers, with clinics in Toronto and Chicago. Here she is on CBC News helping a young woman who whose face, neck, and arms were scarred after bullies threw boiling water on her:

Basma also helps patients with vitiligo, a disease that causes skin to lose color in blotches, by using flesh-toned tattoo ink.

Meanwhile, Samantha Bennett, a 39-year-old bacterial meningitis survivor, visited tattoo artist Tim Hendricks in 2011 to conceal scars on her arm caused by the rare disease.

RELATED: Be Aware: Your Tattoos Could Cause False-Positive Results for Cancer

Samantha, who got a tattoo of a woman inside a butterfly, told WomensHealthMag.com in April that her story, which was featured on the TLC reality show NY Ink, has inspired others. “One lady came up to me at a festival and said, ‘I just want to tell you that you rock and I love you,’” Samantha told us. “Her daughter was burned and scarred from head to toe [in a fire], and she said she saw my story and felt so inspired.”

Tattoos are also a way that some women cover up scars from double mastectomy surgery. Juanita Williams is one such woman—she recently got this gorgeous angel wing design on her chest from tattoo artist Shane Wallin at Garnet Tattoo in San Diego:

Watch this: inspiring NBC San Diego story on Garnet Tattoo's Shane Wallin and Juanita's amazing ink. Proud to be working with you guys! https://vimeo.com/122313787

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“For mastectomy work, there’s a restorative quality, and it’s something that’s been taken away that you’re giving back," said Wallin in an interview with NBC San Diego. "You’re giving someone self-esteem, you’re giving them confidence, and you’re making them feel sexy again.”

Wallin created his first design for a breast-cancer survivor two years ago, and then he started working with with Personal Ink, an organization that connects breast-cancer survivors with tattoo artists—that’s how Juanita got in touch with him. “I wanted angel wings for all the women who passed away from from breast cancer,” said Juanita in the NBC interview.

There are plenty of super cool mastectomy tattoo ideas on Pinterest:

RELATED: These Are the Types of Tattoos People Get Removed the Most

Women with alopecia, an autoimmune disease that causes hair loss, are even getting henna tattoos, which last one to three weeks, on their heads. In 2011, San Francisco photographer Frances Darwin founded the organization Henna Heals to empower women suffering from hair loss. The organization also works with women who've had hair loss from cancer treatments. Frances has partnered with more than 250 henna artists, who all create stunning henna crowns like the two below (henna done by artists Tarquin Singh and Joanne Rumstein-Ellis, respectively):

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It just goes to show how truly powerful tattoos can be. Pretty remarkable, isn't it?

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Let Our Next Fitness Star Finalists Show You Why They Made It to the Top Five

Who do you think should win?

Voting is now open for our Next Fitness Star competition, and the search for the fittest female personal trainer is heating up! Check out the finalists' bios and videos all this week on WomensHealthMag.com, and head over to thenextfitnessstar.com to vote for your favorite until August 3rd (you can vote once a day).

Want to find out more about what our Next Fitness Star competition is all about? No problem. Check out the first episode of our "Road to Next Fitness Star" series below, in which we introduce our five finalists: Nikki Metzger, Rachel Nicks, Jana Hare, Christine Bullock, and Dina Juve. Find out which of these women has battled with an auto-immune disease and juggles being a mom with her hectic work schedule. Learn who strives to bring out the inner athlete in all her clients, and discover which finalist has the most years of experience under her belt. Who do you think has what it takes to be the Next Fitness Star?

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Figured out who your favorite finalist is? Head on over to thenextfitnessstar.com to cast your vote!

Combine These Exercises For Insane Gains

Say goodbye to playing it safe in the gym; sticking to what you know you're good at is a recipe for stalled progress. Try these innovative exercise pairings to patch up the chinks in your armor!

Tuesday, 23 June 2015

See Inspiring Photos of 5 Women Determined to Stay Fit After Tragic Accidents

Fitspiration at its finest

Between every person and his or her fitness goals is an obstacle. And not to make light of your crazed schedule or massive pile of papers on your desk, but if these five fitspirational athletes can overcome tragedy, loss of limbs, car accidents, and explosions to get fit, you can definitely show your obstacles who's boss. Let’s get to work.

1. Kellie Mencel

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Just a week after surviving a massive car accident in which her car flipped five times, Kellie Mencel was on a boat with her family—trying to get away from it all—when the boat exploded.

17 years old at the time, Kellie endured years of hospitalization and outpatient treatment, not to mention weird looks from classmates when they saw her carrying an umbrella and wearing compression bandages, gloves, and a hat to protect her sensitive skin from the sun. And despite cruel comments from girls on rival basketball teams—and the fact that no one wanted to cover her during games—Kellie used sports and fitness to push forward and find herself.

“Living a healthy and active lifestyle is what helped me get through all this,” Kellie recently told Buzzfeed. “Exercise is the most effective anti-depressant but the least used.” Now, at 22, Kellie works as a personal trainer and is studying fitness and nutrition.

"I’ve learned to take risks and try to be fearless in my everyday life because I want my life to be meaningful,” she says. “I try to inspire and motivate people to live a healthy, active life because that's what helped me; that is what got me through.”

Follow her fit journey at instagram.com/kelliemencel

2. Heather Abbott

Heather, like many, lost something at the 2013 Boston Marathon bombings. But for her, the losses weren't just emotional; the second bomb exploded just feet away from her, and she ended up having to have her left foot and part of her leg removed.

Unfortunately, when she first received her prosthetic leg, it was the hope of walking again. “It was so painful,” she told Women’s Health in an exclusive interview. “I was only six weeks out of surgery, so the incision was still new. I stood up and thought, ‘This is what I’m going to walk on? It’s like a stilt! How am I going to do this?”

Now, Heather now has four prosthetics. “This is what I’m getting used to now—which is good because I have to—but it’s also kind of sad,” she says. Two of Heather's prosthetics are for her workouts: One is waterproof so she can wear it while paddle boarding, which she loves, and one is a blade she uses exclusively for running.

The latter came in handy when she ran the last half-mile of the Boston Marathon in 2014, just one year after losing her leg. That year, she also won the Orthopedic Association’s Spirit of an Active Lifestyle Award. And on the eve of the 2015 Boston Marathon, she launched the Heather Abbott Foundation, aimed at helping others who have lost limbs.

Follow her fit journey at twitter.com/heather/abbott1

3. Alana Nichols

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It was the first snow of the season, and Alana was bound and determined to do a back flip; she had been practicing it on the trampoline with her snowboard all summer. But this time, she pushed too hard, did an extra half-flip, and landed on her back, on a rock.

“Immediately on impact, I felt my back break,” she told Women’s Health. I screamed louder than I ever had before—but it wasn’t so much out of pain, but rather shock from how my body was feeling. It was like a wave of energy had disappeared from my waist down, and I couldn’t feel my board or boots anymore. When my friends told me I was wearing them, I knew something was wrong with my legs.”

Alana had shattered her vertebrae, severed her spinal cord, and would never walk again. “I had been an athlete throughout my entire life, and that’s how I still identified myself,” she said. “Being paralyzed made me feel like that wasn’t who I was anymore, and it was devastating.”

But after two years, she realized she could still be the hardcore athlete she always was—just on wheels. She transferred to the University of Arizona to play collegiate-level wheelchair basketball and has since gone on to become the first American woman to have won gold medals in the both the summer and winter Olympic Games, rocking both basketball and skiing. “I love when people tell me I can’t do something,” she says.

Follow her fit journey at instagram.com/alanathejane

4. Allison Tai

In 2006, Allison Tai finished second the Ironman Canada, coming in second in her age group and making the podium. A week later, she was riding her bike when a truck hit her from behind at highway speed. She broke her back, pelvis, and arm, and spent six months in a hard plastic, full-body cast.

“When they finally took the body cast off, I couldn't even sit upright,” she writes on her blog. “My core muscles were gone. I remember the day that I first held a plank for five seconds. Five.”

Since then, she has progressed to walking, pool running, jogging, and to now winning tons of obstacle races (like she didn’t have enough obstacles of her own) and helping others do the same as a fitness instructor and race coach. She does it all with two kids in tow, too. She actually holds the Guinness World Records for Fastest Female Pram (Stroller) Push for the 10-K and full marathon distances.

“I can't imagine a day going by in my life without a little physical challenge," she writes. "It's what life is."

Follow her fit journey at twitter.com/allisontai

5. Rachelle Friedman

It was the night of her bachelorette party, and Rachelle and her friends decided to take a dip in the pool. Standing on the edge, one of her friends jokingly pushed Rachelle into the water—and Rachelle went in head-first. She hit the bottom, and her body immediately became numb. She had injured her upper spine and was told that she would never walk again.

“I used to teach line dancing and aerobics to senior citizens, but now I was having a hard time lifting a two-pound weight,” she told Women’s Health. “I used to be a lifeguard, but now I was unable to swim. The rehab was intense, but I approached it like any other workout session at the gym. Only this time, I was working out to gain independence, not just to keep my body looking tight.”

It made her work that much harder. With the help of special gloves, she can now wrap her hands around barbells and rock her CrossFit workouts. “My biceps are still strong,” she says. She lies on her stomach to catch serious waves while surfing and is now reaching others as Under Armour ambassador.

Follow her fit journey at twitter.com/followrachelle

Watch Real Men Read Passages from the New Fifty Shades Book

Prepare to bite your lip—and to LOL.

The reviews for Grey, the brand-new Fifty Shades novel told from Christian Grey's perspective, are...not great. But while the book may not be a literary masterpiece (did anyone expect it to be?), it is pretty great fodder for comedy. Just watch this hilarious video of men reading E.L. James' carefully crafted lines:

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Pretty fantastic, right? Definitely something you'll want to share with all of your friends who are diehard Christian Grey fans.

Warning: Your Vibrator Could Be Made with Harmful Chemicals

How to keep your solo sex safe

You're probably only worried about what you can catch during sex when you're with another human being—not a battery-operated partner. But your vibrator could contain potentially harmful ingredients, says ob-gyn Alyssa Dweck, M.D., coauthor of V is for Vagina.

Of top concern are phthalates, chemical compounds that are used to make plastics bendy. They've been linked to birth defects, asthma, neurodevelopmental problems in newborns, fertility issues, and obesity. It’s also possible that phthalates disrupt hormones, says Dweck.

The National Toxicology Program has said that one called Di(2-ethylhexyl) phthalate is “reasonably anticipated to be a human carcinogen.” Meanwhile, Congress has banned six types of phthalates for use in children's toys, pacifiers, and other child-care articles.

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So if they are unsafe for a baby’s mouth, why are they allowed in your hoo-ha? Currently, regulation of sex toys is voluntary, so companies can either have their toys certified as phthalate-free or put whatever they want in them, says Stuart Nugent, a spokesperson for Lelo.

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How to Buy Phthalate-Free
“My best advice is to shop with reputable companies that offer reassurance that their products are body-safe and phthalate-free,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. “If a company makes that claim, it demonstrates that they talk to their vendors and vet everything before they decide to stock it.”

Meanwhile, when you’re at the store, there are a few signs that a toy isn’t safe. For instance, most toys that contain phthalates are made from jelly rubber (often the case with dildos and penis rings) and come with a distinct odor. “If it smells like a new vinyl or plastic shower curtain, let that be one of your clues,” she says. They might even have a slightly sticky surface, even if they haven’t been used or removed from their packaging, says Nugent.

Meanwhile, since phthalate-containing toys are often not certified, they might have "for novelty use only" written on their packaging. “Run a mile if you see a phrase like that," says Nugent. "It’s likely unsafe."

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On the flip side, many brands that have gone the extra mile will lists certifications and accreditations on their packaging. “Look out for them," says Nugent. "It means an external regulatory body has evaluated the materials and deemed it safe for market. That’s the only way you can be really sure."

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Monday, 22 June 2015

Get a Peek Behind-the-Scenes at the Women’s World Cup

Seeing the sights in Vancouver and cheering on the U.S. is hard work, but somebody had to do it.

In the second grade, I was the girl who tried to go for a header during P.E. and ended up falling over backward after the soccer ball hit me in the face. (I may be able to run half-marathons now, but I'm still not exactly what you'd call coordinated.)

So when Adidas Women invited me to go to Vancouver, Canada, to watch the U.S. play Nigeria in the FIFA Women's World Cup with 14 other women in the health and fitness world, two thoughts immediately crossed my mind: (1) This sounds amazing. (2) I hope we won't have to actually play any soccer ourselves. Luckily for me, the itinerary was packed with plenty of activities that didn't involve heading a soccer ball.

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The trip was all about celebrating everyday active women (even soccer-challenged me), along with the athletes we all know and love (we're looking at you, Becky Sauerbrunn). First up was a bike tour of Vancouver that took us along the beautiful Sea Wall and to sites like Chinatown (the city has the second-largest one in North America!) and BC Place, where we would later see the U.S. women's soccer team play.

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After stopping for a sushi lunch, we made our way to Stanley Park for a yoga session with a view.

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During the bike tour, one of our guides had mentioned that Grouse Mountain is a must-see if you're into hiking (locals call it "the Grouse Grind" or "God's Stairmaster" because there are 2,830 steps to the top). So while eating a dinner of beet salad and spring pea risotto at Edible Canada, a few of us begged the reps from Adidas to wake up before 6 a.m. with us the following day and do the 90-minute hike before the official activities were scheduled to start.

The trail was basically straight up, but it was so worth it—is there any better feeling than reaching the peak of a mountain after a long hike? Here's the view from the top:

For lunch, we kayaked along the Indian Arm River to a small island, where our guides grilled salmon for us (so delicious!). Then, it was time for the culmination of our trip: the WWC game!

You could feel the energy and excitement the second you stepped into the stadium. There were 52,193 people in attendance, and almost all of them were U.S.A. fans who knew what was at stake: A win or a tie would clinch America a spot in the next round of the tournament, while a loss could put its chances of moving on in jeopardy—or put it up against some of the toughest competitors right away.

The Adidas suite we had the privilege of watching the game from had fun perks like complimentary food and drinks, but it was hard to focus on any of that while the game was going on in front of us. I kept thinking about how the players only have the chance to compete in the WWC once every four years—and how amazing it was that so many people were there cheering them on. (There are noticeably more women's soccer fans so far this year than when the WWC last took place in 2011, says Adidas head of soccer Ernesto Bruce.)

After a U.S. goal that was ruled off-sides (heartbreaking!), Abby Wambach scored at the end of the second half—and every U.S.A. fan in the stadium was instantly on their feet. In that moment, as Americans turned to hug each other and Abby jumped into the air in glee, every person there was part of something bigger than themselves. (In case you weren't watching, the U.S. went on to win the game 1-0.)

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A funny thing happens when you're wearing all red, white, and blue Adidas gear and you're with a group of about a dozen other fit ladies doing the same thing: People assume you're the U.S. women's soccer team. As we left the stadium, a man with a big American flag cheered and took a picture with us (that would be the main photo above). Later, while we enjoyed a drink at a nearby hotel, multiple people walked up to us to congratulate us on our win. We decided just to go with it (it was more fun for everyone involved). And just like that, I wasn't the kid flunking P.E.—I was part of the U.S. women's soccer team (if only for a night).

That's the great thing about sports: Whether you're crossing the finish line at a race, reaching the top of a mountain, cheering on your country's team as they compete at the highest level possible, or even being mistaken for a pro athlete, it's a high you can't get anywhere else.

The U.S. faces off against Columbia in Edmonton, Canada, tonight at 8 p.m. EST. You can watch on Fox Sports 1 or NBC Universo.

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Saturday, 20 June 2015

We‘Mirin Vol 111: 18 Super Dads

Being a fit father is not always easy, but these 18 guys sure make it look like it is. Happy Father's Day, Bodybuilding.com family!

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How My Breakup Motivated Me to Get Fit and Strong

Kaity Krontz's lowest point inspired her to shed 120 pounds.

Before: 320

After: 197

The Lifestyle
Between 2012 and 2013, my dad, grandma, and grandpa passed away. Obviously, this was a huge stress on my family, and I took on more responsibility than I had my whole life.

Whenever I was sad or overwhelmed, which was a lot that year, I would eat way beyond the point of feeling full. I did it to make myself feel better; it was totally a coping mechanism. Eating fatty, delicious foods made me happy, and I didn't care about the consequences.

Before my family went through that tragic time, I weighed somewhere around 270 pounds. That was probably a result of not working out and eating fast food or dorm food, like macaroni and cheese and pizza. It didn't help that my boyfriend of three years also loved to eat. Our relationship to each other was about as unhealthy as our relationship with food. We relied on each other for everything and didn't really have our own social groups or lives. Since I ate to deal with the loss of so many of my family members and dated someone who never saw a problem with that, I put on 50 pounds over six months.

Around the time of my grandma's death, I also found out that my boyfriend had cheated on me. I realized that way too much of my life depended on him. I looked at myself in the mirror and was upset that I was overweight, alone, and so unhappy with myself. I thought, "Okay, if I don't love myself right now, how am I going to find a guy who will?" At the time, I weighed 320 pounds.

The Change
I randomly came across an ad for a place called Title Boxing Club. At that point, I was angry; I was so mad about all of the stuff life had thrown at me that seeing people in the advertisement taking their aggression out on those punching bags looked really freaking good—so I signed up.

Though I thought it looked like it was something I could do, when I got there I felt like a big loser. The trainers were so welcoming, but I couldn't do one sit-up or pushup. It took everything in me to finish that first class—but I did it!

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For the first couple of months it was terrible—but in the best way possible. The classes really kicked my ass.

Within the first month of working out so hard, I realized that my diet needed to change, too. I would get to class and feel sleepy from eating nachos or a cheeseburger for lunch. I told myself, "Girlfriend; you've got to get it together."

So I threw out everything in my fridge and went to the grocery store. I picked up all fresh, healthy produce and protein that I could cook with—no more macaroni or pizza. I also bought a grill to begin cooking my meals on. I literally grilled everything: fish, veggies, and even fruit. That's kind of how I learned to love cooking. After eating better, I had so much more energy to work out. I began to see my food as fuel, and it didn't hold me back anymore.

After two months of eating right and working out four to five days a week, I saw my body change dramatically. I wasn't just losing weight; I was gaining muscle. The coolest thing was realizing that my hard work could change my body. One day, I was sitting at work and I put my hand down on my thigh and felt my quads where my leg used to be soft and squishy. It was amazing.

2 miles in the books for the first time since high school!

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I kept up the hard work by trying new classes and continuing to eat right. A little over a year after I'd started my journey, I'd lost 123 pounds. Now, I weigh 197 pounds. It's been the absolute best year of my life.

I was so sad about my breakup for a long time, but when I look back, it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I would have never put my butt in gear to work out if we had we stayed together. Now, though I've definitely been approached, I don't have time for guys. I'm too busy doing the things I love.

The Reward
I've become so much more independent by focusing on myself and my health. I would have never been okay enjoying a meal (that I cooked) by myself before. Now, I do it all the time. It's also great to know that I can do things like boxing, yoga, and running—things I never would have thought I could do. It's so satisfying. Now that I've accomplished so much through fitness, I want to become a trainer and help others.

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Kaity's Tips
Invest in yourself. Since I started spending my money on workout classes, I've felt so much better than when I bought clothes or went out to eat. Buying all of those classes isn't cheap, but it's kept me motivated to work out and try new things.

Don't get discouraged. When I couldn’t do a single pushup, I felt really horrible about my fitness level. However, I used that as motivation to get stronger and improve rather than doubt myself.

Don't be scared of the gym! When I started working out, I thought that people would think that I shouldn't be there, but that never happened. Trainers and others at the gym were always encouraging and helpful. Some even told me that I inspired them to work harder.

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